Yadda ake kwarkwasa akan Intanet: shafuka, aikace-aikace da nasihu

Kamar yadda duk kuka sani, 14 ga Fabrairu tana nan tafe. Don wannan ranar, akwai wargi wanda ba ya faranta wa maras aure musamman, wanda shi ne wanda ke cewa "a ranar masoya, masu aure suna sukar ranar suna cewa ranar ciniki ce da za a cinye" kuma ba ta tafiya tare da su. Ma'aurata suna da gaskiya daidai, amma kuma rana ce da zata iya zama keɓaɓɓiya idan kuna da abokin tarayya. Da yawa daga cikin waɗannan marassa aure ba maras son rai bane, amma suna son a haɗa su kuma a cikin wannan labarin zamuyi ƙoƙarin nuna muku yadda ake kwarkwasa akan yanar gizo.

Abu na farko da zan so in fada shi ne yin kwarkwasa akan Intanet (ko kashe shi) Ba cikakken kimiyya bane. Akwai littattafan yaudara da ke da'awar suna da wata hanya, amma kawai yana ɗaukar haɗuwa da mutum da ɗan bambanci da sauran don fahimtar nau'ikan halaye da halayen mutane. A cikin wannan labarin za mu samar muku da aikace-aikace, shafuka da hanyoyin da zaku iya samun rabinku mafi kyau, da kuma wasu shawarwari, amma ba za mu ba ku wata hanyar sihiri da za ta tabbatar da nasarar 100% ba.

Kamar yadda koyaushe a cikin irin wannan jerin, zaɓuɓɓuka masu zuwa ba a lissafa su cikin mahimmancin gaske. Dole ne ku zaɓi wanda ya fi dacewa da ku ko kuma wanda kuke tsammanin zai fi dacewa da bukatunku. A cikin jerin na sanya shafuka masu mahimmanci don neman abokin zama tsayayye, aikace-aikacen da na san cewa yawancin ma'aurata sun shiga, duk da cewa ba aikace-aikace bane da aka kirkiresu kawai don kwarkwasa, kuma wani lokaci ne na marasa aminci, wani abu da alama bashi da ma'ana saboda rashin aminci dole ne ka sami abokin tarayya, amma idan shafi ne na "yaudara", koyaushe zamu iya yin yaudara. A ƙasa kuna da jerin shafuka, aikace-aikace da tukwici don yin kwarkwasa akan layi.

Yadda ake kwarkwasa akan Intanet: shafuka da aikace-aikace

eDarling

eDarling shine ɗayan manyan rukunin yanar gizon ƙawancen Turai kuma mafi amfani a Spain. Shafin an haife shi ne a cikin Jamusanci kuma yana da babban farin jini, wani abu wanda muhimmancinsa da sakamakonsa suka taimaka. An biya shi, kamar mafi yawan sabis na wannan nau'in, amma idan kuna neman abokin tarayya mai mahimmanci, yana iya zama farkon wanda yakamata ku gwada.

Don bayyana kadan, rajista tare da eDarling kyauta ne. Zan kwatanta tsarin kasuwancin su tare da aikace-aikacen kyauta tare da sayayyar hadaddiyar wayar hannu: mun shiga kyauta amma muna buƙatar biya idan muna son samun sakamako.

Yanar gizo: kannan.ir

Ashley Madison

Ta shiga cikin wani abin kunya: An yiwa Ashley Madison fyade kuma… da kyau, bari mu fara a farkon. Ashley Madison shafin yanar gizo ne ga waɗanda suka suna so su rayu wani kasada tare da wani wanda ba abokin tarayya ba. Lokacin da aka yi kutse, bayanan miliyoyin mutane marasa aminci sun fallasa kuma wannan abin kunya ne, cewa abokan waɗannan mutanen za su iya gano game da amincin su, don haka sabis ɗin ba zai iya ba da tabbacin rashin sani na 100% ba.

A kowane hali, Ashley Madison har yanzu yana aiki. Ina so in sanya ta a cikin jerin wadanda ba su da aure wadanda kuma suke son yin kasada, kodayake za mu dan yi karya kadan: yin rijistar cewa kuna da abokin tarayya. A hankalce, irin wannan ƙawancen yana faruwa ne kawai don wannan kasada, kodayake wanene ya sani, koyaushe kuna iya sa ɗayan ya bar abokin tarayya, dama?

Yanar gizo: ashleymadison.com

Dauke kawu

AdoptaUnTío shafin yanar gizo ne wanda ya zo daga Faransa. Bai isa ba tare da rikici ba, tunda a cikin wannan sabis ɗin sadarwar mata ne ke da dukkan iko. Dole ne maza su cika furofayil su jira mace ta "siya" su.

A bayyane yake cewa wannan sabis ɗin na maza ne waɗanda suke tunanin suna da wani abu da zai iya jan hankalin mata. Ta hanyar rashin iya yin hulɗa da su yana nuna musu cewa suna da ban sha'awa, bari muce AdoptaUnTío na wa ɗ annan maza ne da suke da damar "sanya tallace-tallace" da ƙila za su so su. Ka kuskura?

Ah, na manta: wannan rukunin yanar gizon yana iya tuntuɓar kawai maza da mata.

Yanar gizo: rungtauntarka.es

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Daidaita da kuma Meetic

Meetic da Match wasu shafukan yanar gizo ne guda biyu waɗanda suke daidai iri ɗaya, dole kawai ku shigar dasu duka don ku fahimta. Meetic, wanda shine mafi shahararren biyun, shine gidan yanar sadarwar soyayya inda zaku iya shirya ayyuka da haduwa wanda masu amfani zasu iya haɗuwa, wanda yafi kwanciyar hankali kuma tare da pressureasa matsi fiye da kasancewa kai tsaye ba tare da wani shiri ba. Ana samunsa a cikin ƙasashen Turai 16 da cikin harsuna daban daban 13. Kasancewa mai mahimmanci, da alama amintaccen fare ne.

Shafin wasa: safiya.com

Shafin nama: haduwa.com

Badoo

Badoo shine hanyar sadarwar jama'a, dole ne a bayyana hakan. Abin da ya faru shi ne cewa a cikin wannan hanyar sadarwar zamantakewar, masu amfani sun fi yawa mai son yin kwarkwasa fiye da sauran hanyoyin sadarwar zamantakewa kamar sanannun Facebook. Kyakkyawan zaɓi ne don tuntuɓar mutanen da ke son samun abokin tarayya wanda a ka'idar bai shiga don yin kwarkwasa ba. Wani abu ne wanda kuma yake ɗaukar ɗan matsa lamba.

Yanar gizo: badoo.com/en

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Tinder

Tinder wata hanyar sadarwar zamantakewa ce, amma ana amfani da ita don mutane masu ra'ayi iri daya a samu. Wannan shine abu mai kyau game da Tinder: idan kuna son ɗaya daga cikin abokan hulɗarku, kun rigaya san cewa kuna da wani abu iri ɗaya. Dukanmu muna son abokin tarayyarmu ya zama mai kyakkyawa, amma idan shima yana kusa da mu, me zaku iya nema?

Kyauta: a cikin hira

Kamar yadda ake cewa, "Idan wani abu ya yi aiki, to kar a taba shi." Da Cats (IRC) sun kasance kusan kusan tun farkon zamanin yanar gizo. Akwai shafuka da yawa da suke bayarwa Cats kyauta inda zamu iya shiga muyi magana da kowane irin mutane. A cikin wani hira Ba za mu taɓa zama kai kaɗai ba na wani abu, don haka idan muna ƙoƙarin yin kwarkwasa, ya tabbata cewa za a sami mutane da yawa da suke iri ɗaya. A zahiri, yawancin mutanen da suka shiga Cats Tana yi ne saboda tana jin kadaici ko yaya kuma tana fatan samun wani a wurin wanda zata iya tattaunawa da shi mai yuwuwa kuma ta sami abokin zama.

Tips

• Karka bada bayanan sirri. Zan iya cewa ba tare da yin tsokaci ba amma, kamar kowane abu akan Intanet, yana da kyau kar a yarda da kowa har sai sun tabbatar da cewa su masu gaskiya ne. Kuma har ma fiye da haka danƙa amanar bayananmu a gare ku.
• Yi hankali da zamba. Wannan ma'anar tana da kamanceceniya da wacce ta gabata. A cikin ire-iren wadannan shafuka kuma akwai ‘yan damfara da yawa, tare da banbancin da wadannan‘ yan damfarar ke bata lokaci suna tattaunawa da mu. Akwai lokutan da wani, wani lokaci daga wata ƙasa, ya nemi kuɗi don ya zo ya gan mu. Za ku yi mamakin mutanen da suke cizon irin wannan ƙugiya. A gefe guda, akwai wasu shafuka da zasu iya cajin wani abu wanda basa bayarwa daga baya. Kodayake waɗanda na ba ku a baya suna iya yin amfani da yanayin amfani da su don ba da gudummawar wani abu, su ne mafiya martaba kuma ya fi wuya a gare su su yi ƙoƙari su yaudare ku.
• Kar a samu yawan rudu. Muna iya saduwa da mutane da yawa akan Intanet, mai kyau da mara kyau. A yau ba abin mamaki bane cewa mutane biyu da suka hadu akan Intanet ma'aurata ne masu karko, amma ba abin mamaki bane cewa mun fita kwanan wata kuma kawai mun sami abin da bamu tsammani ba. Tabbas kun ga wani hoto mai ban dariya wanda zaku ga mutane biyu suna rubutu daidai da akasin abin da suke.
• Kayi hattara idan macece. Wannan na iya zama kamar ɗan iskanci ne, amma babu wani abu mai gaskiya daga gaskiya. Anan muna magana ne kawai game da ka'idar ka'ida idan kun haɗu da wani haɗari. Don kaucewa wannan, zai fi kyau ka yanke komai game da taron: yankin da ka sani, idan yana iya zama mashaya ko makamancin haka wanda zaka iya haduwa da ma'aikata iri ɗaya, idan za'a iya raka ka, mafi kyau, da dai sauransu.
• Idan kai namiji ne, ka yi haƙuri. Me ya sa? A lokuta da yawa, a kan irin waɗannan shafuka, lambobin sadarwa suna farawa ta hanyar aikawa da saƙo zuwa ga mutumin da suke so. Ban sani ba ko ban taɓa la'akari da dalili ba, amma mu mutane muna aika da yawa daga cikin waɗannan saƙonnin, don haka idan muna son mace kuma muka yanke shawarar aika mata wani abu, ku tabbata cewa mutumin zai karɓi ɗaruruwan saƙonni.
• Idan ka yanke shawarar yin karya, to ka riƙe ƙarya. A Intanet yana da sauƙi a yi ƙarya, wannan ba asiri bane. Ba na son ba da shawara ko gaskiya ko nuna wani abu da ba mu ba, amma zan iya cewa idan kun yanke shawarar yin ƙarya, cewa ƙarya ce da za ku iya kiyayewa. Kuna iya kirkirar wasu bangarorin mu, amma abinda bai kamata kuyi ba shine ka fadi babbar karya da zata kawo karshen lalata dangantakar idan aka gano ta. Sai dai idan ana neman wata dangantaka ta ɗan lokaci, a wannan yanayin wannan shawarar ba ta dace ba.

Don haka, idan ba ku da abokin tarayya kuma kuna so ku sami ɗaya ko kuyi rayuwa mai ban sha'awa, tafi shi. Kamar yadda aka faɗi koyaushe, baku da shi, amma yana iya zama mai daɗi sosai. Wa ya sani? Wataƙila mafi kyawun shafuka a tarihin rayuwar ku har yanzu ba a rubuta su ba kuma waɗancan surorin suna farawa da zancen Intanet. Idan ka yanke shawara ka dauki matakin, sa'a 😉