Ndikhumbula ngokungathi yayisisisixhobo sokuqala esiphathwayo namhlanje, kuba yayingeyiyo i-smartphone okanye nantoni na, endayinikwa ngabazali bam xa ndijika i-18. Kwakuyi-Alcatel One Touch Easy kwaye kum yayingathi ndinobuncwane bokwenyani ngawo wonke umzuzu ezandleni zam. Ngelo xesha iiterminal zokuqala zaqala ukufika kwimarike kwaye kwakunzima ukubona umntu omncinci kangako ephethe iselfowuni.
Bendihlala ndicinga ukuba ndinethamsanqa lokuba ndikwazi ukuba neselfowuni ndisemncinci kangaka, kodwa ngoku ndibona usizi ngakumbi nangakumbi lokuba abantwana abaneminyaka emi-5 okanye emi-6 ubudala sele benayo i-smartphone yabo. Ngamaxesha amaninzi bayiphatha ngcono kunam kunye nomnye umntu, kwaye bagqibela ngokwahlulahlula kwizinto ebekufanele ukuba bayazenza, njengabantwana njengokuba kunjalo, nabangazenziyo. Ukuze ungabugqibi ubuntwana bakhe nawuphi na umntwana ngaphambi kwexesha, namhlanje siza kukunika Izizathu ezi-5 zokuba kutheni sicinga ukuba akufuneki uthengele umntwana wakho i-smartphone.
I-smartphone ibenza balibale imizobo kunye nemidlalo
Ngakumbi nangakumbi abantwana, abancinci, ngubani Bahlala bexakekile ngumzekelo weyona midlalo idumileyo esinokuyifumana kuGoogle Play okanye kwiVenkile yeApp. Oku kubenza ukuba bavuke ebhedini bacinge ngokuqhubeka nokudlula kwinqanaba lomdlalo abawuthandayo, bayeke ukubona loo mizobo bayithandayo kakhulu okanye babeke ecaleni izinto zabo zokudlala abazithandayo.
Akukubi ukuba umntwana adlale umdlalo kwi-smartphone yethu amaxesha ngamaxesha, kodwa Ukusuka apho uye kwisixhobo sakho esiphathwayo esineminyaka emi-5 okanye emi-6 egcwele imidlalo, ndicinga ukuba yimpazamo enkulu. Nawuphi na umntwana unobomi phambi kwakhe ukonwabela i-smartphone, kodwa akasayi kuba nexesha lokuphila ukonwabela iPaw Patrol okanye iSpongeBob kunye nokukhaba ibhola.
Ukuphazamiseka kokulala
Kuba izixhobo eziziimfonomfono kunye neetafile zifikile kwimarike, sikwazile ukubona kunye nokufunda izifundo ezininzi ezicebisa ngokuchasene nokusetyenziswa kwezi zixhobo okwethutyana ngaphambi kokuba ulale uyokulala kwaye kungenxa yokuba banokubuguqula ubuthongo ngenxa yokuqaqamba izikrini.
Oku kunokuba mandundu ngendlela ebaluleke ngakumbi kweyona incinci endlwini, okwenza kube nzima kakhulu ukulala. Ngokucacileyo utshintsho kubuthongo bomntwana omncinci luchaphazela ngokuthe ngqo kuyo yonke into ayenzayo ngosuku olulandelayo. Uyakube udiniwe, ngaphandle kwamandla amaninzi kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kuba nomnqweno omkhulu kunye nomdla ekwenzeni umsebenzi wakho wesikolo.
Banokuchaphazela ukukhula kwengqondo ebantwaneni
Nangona inokubonakala ingaqhelekanga kwaye kunzima ukuyiqonda Ukuvezwa ngokugqithisileyo kwee-smartphones, kubantwana abaphakathi kwe-0 kunye ne-4 yeminyaka ubudala, kunokukhokelela ekukhuleni kwengqondo okungalunganga yabantwana. Ukongeza, inokuvelisa ukulibaziseka kuphuhliso ngokubanzi lwabancinci.
Ngokwezifundo ezininzi, ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwezixhobo eziphathwayo okanye iitafile usemncinci kungakhokelela ekusileleni kwengqwalaselo, ukulibaziseka kwengqondo, iingxaki zokufunda, ukonyusa ukungxamiseka kunye nokungakwazi ukuzibamba (ingqumbo).
Umxholo ongafanelekanga kwizandla zakho
Oomama abaninzi okanye ootata, ngalo lonke ixesha beshiya i-smartphone yabo emntwaneni wabo, kwaye umntu othile uyasigxeka eso simo sengqondo, bahlala besenza izizathu ezifanayo. Le ayisiyonto ngaphandle ko "ubukele iividiyo kuphela kwiYouTube." Into abangayiqondiyo yile Inkonzo yevidiyo kaGoogle igcwele umxholo ongalunganga kuye nawuphi na umntwana, Ngubani oneevidiyo ongafanele umbone eneminyaka yakho ngokuhamba kweminwe emibini.
Ukuboleka isixhobo esiphathwayo kuye nawuphi na umntwana kubanika ithuba lokujonga isixa esikhulu somxholo ongalunganga. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokujonga imizobo oyithandayo kwi-smartphone, kodwa into ongafanele uyenze kukushiya iselfowuni emntwaneni ngaphandle kolawulo lwabazali ukuze bangabinakho ukufikelela kumxholo othile. I-YouTube kwaye ngokubanzi uthungelwano lothungelwano luzele ngumxholo ongafanelanga umntwana omncinci kwaye ekufuneka igcinwe ibekwe esweni, kwaye ngaphandle kwesizathu, ngokusondeleyo.
Zingakhokelela ekutyebeni kakhulu komntwana
Ngalo lonke ixesha sinika okanye siboleka i-smartphone emntwaneni, senza i ingxaki yokutya kakhulu. Kwaye ukuba nawuphi na umntwana ophethe isixhobo esiphathwayo ezandleni zakhe ngokuqinisekileyo akasayi kusuka esofeni okanye kwisitulo kangangeeyure, kuba uya kuba nakho ukubukela iividiyo ezingabalekiyo kwiYouTube kwaye adlale amakhulu emidlalo athi amnike ingqalelo. Oku kuthetha ukuba awenzi naluphi na uhlobo lomthambo.
Ukuba awunayo i-smartphone, awunakuyeka ukusebenza nokutsiba, kodwa ngefowuni ephathekayo ezandleni zakho yonke into iyahluka kakhulu kwaye awuyi kufuna ukuhamba nokuba usele amanzi. Njengoko besesitshilo, oku kunokubangela ukutyeba kakhulu ebuntwaneni, kodwa kukwavela kuyo, unokufumana isifo seswekile okanye iingxaki ze-vascular kunye nentliziyo.
Izimvo ngokukhululekileyo
Wonke umntu ukhululekile ukuba enze unothanda nokuba ungayiniki i-smartphone umntwana wakho, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ngokunika esinye sezixhobo kumntwana osemncinci asizuzi kwanto. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba lifikile ixesha lokuba umntwana wakho abe neselfowuni, umzekelo ukuze ube nako ukuyifumana ngalo lonke ixesha, cinga ngendlela okonwabe ngayo ebuntwaneni bakho kwaye ungamniki into enokumhlukanisa umhlaba kwaye zivelise iingxaki. Kwimarike namhlanje zininzi izixhobo eziphathwayo eziziiselfowuni kuphela hayi i-smartphone evula iingcango kwiingxaki ezininzi.
Abantwana ngabantwana kwaye ngaphambi kokuba bachithe usuku behleli ngaphandle kokujonga kude kwi-smartphone, kufuneka badlale emva kwebhola, bagxume babaleke kwaye bonwabele ezinye iindlela ezininzi.
Ngaba uyakuthanda ukunika i-smartphone kumntwana omncinci?. Kwimeko apho impendulo ivuma, sixelele izizathu zakho. Ngale nto ungasebenzisa indawo ebekelwe amagqabantshintshi kule posi okanye ngayo nayiphi na inethiwekhi yoluntu apho sikhona.
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