UKovi Dunbar, imodeli ekwishumi elivisayo Wanyamalala kwiintsuku ezilishumi ezidlulileyo esezandleni zendoda awadibana nayo kuFacebook, ngoku ubuyile nabazali bakhe.
Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo uluntu lwehlabathi lwe-intanethi lwashukunyiswa ziindaba zokunyamalala konobuhle omncinci. Kwakucingelwa ukuba wayenokuba lixhoba lokuxhwilwa kwizandla zendoda awayedibene nayo kuFacebook.
Ngethamsanqa, umntwana oselula wayesele enikezelwe kubazali bakhe ngamapolisa kwaye kubonakala ngathi yonke into yayiyintandane yakudala; loo miba yentliziyo ekhokelela abakwishumi elivisayo ukuba benze izinto eziphambeneyo.
Nangona kunjalo, luphawu olulumkisayo kubazali malunga neengozi ezinokuthi zenzeke kwinethiwekhi yoluntu uFacebook nakwezinye iinethiwekhi. Ngethamsanqa, uKovi ulungile kwaye akukho nto yokuzisola yenzekileyo, kodwa oko kusenokungasoloko kunjalo.
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Kwi-Intanethi - njengayo yonke indawo - kukho abantu abanganyanisekanga nabangenantliziyo abatyhutyha befuna ulutsha olungazinzanga. Ngabo baxhaphazi ngokwesini abadumileyo, abathi izihlandlo ezininzi baye bazisa intlungu namashwa kwiintsapho ehlabathini lonke.
Ngokuqhelekileyo bazibonakalisa njengabangenabungozi kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi bajongela phantsi ukukhusela umntu onokuba lixhoba, befumana ukuthembela kwabo kancinci kancinci. Yinkqubo enokuthatha iiveki, – kwaye siyambulela uThixo – ayisoloko ibasebenzela. Kodwa kwiimeko apho aphumeleleyo, amaxhoba asenokungaze abuyele ekhaya.
Benza ntoni abazali ukunqanda abantwana bethu ekubeni babe ngamaxhoba abantu abaxhaphaza abantwana ngokwesondo kwiiintanethi zonxibelelwano?
Njengotata wexesha elizayo - isizathu sokuba ndingasibhali rhoqo - ndikholelwa ukuba abantwana bafuna inqanaba elithile lolawulo, kodwa ngaphaya koko, ulwazi lokuqala esinokubanika lona lubalulekile ukubathintela ekubeni ngamaxhoba ezi zilwanyana. .
Ngokwemvelo, oosomashishini abasemva kwemidiya yoluntu nabo bayayazi ingozi enokuveliswa ngezi zixhobo zonxibelelwano zinamandla. Njengezixhobo, zinokusetyenziselwa okulungileyo okanye okubi. Nangona kunjalo, kufanelekile ukugxininisa ukuba esona senzo sisebenzayo nesisebenzayo yileyo iqala ekhaya. Yaye kungolwazi oluchanileyo olunokuthi buphetshwe ububi obukhulu.
Ngokomzekelo, abakwishumi elivisayo bafanele balunyukiswe ngeendlela ezininzi abanokufikelelwa ngazo ngaba bantu. Ndichaza ezinye zezo ndlela ngezantsi.
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Ngesazisi sobuxoki.
Basenokuya kwinkwenkwe/intombazana bechaza ukuba bangoobani, umzekelo, bengomnye okwishumi elivisayo okanye njengomntu omdala, obonakala engenabungozi.
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Ngokusebenzisa iintengiso ezinomdla kulutsha.
Umzekelo, ebonisa ukuba umculo wasimahla uyanikezelwa okanye amatikiti simahla ekonsathi okanye olunye uhlobo lwentengiso olutsala umdla wabakwishumi elivisayo. Emva koko, bacela indlela ethile yokunxibelelana; umz. i-MSN okanye olunye uhlobo lomyalezo.
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Kwiifoto zeprofayile ezicetyiswayo.
Abadlwenguli banokuthumela iifoto ezicebisayo - azisoloko ziziqu zabo - zabafikisayo abahle kwaye babonise ukuba bafuna ukuthandana namantombazana / amakhwenkwe anomtsalane ngokulinganayo.
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Ngezithembiso (zobuxoki) zemali, umsebenzi wobugcisa okanye imodeli.
Mhlawumbi bubuchule obusetyenziswa kakhulu ngamarhamncwa. Kukho neemeko ezaziwayo kwamanye amazwe apho kuye kwasekwa izitudiyo ezisebenza ngeemvume zokusebenza ukanti zizinikele ekuxhaphazeni ulutsha olufika ngezi ntlobo zezithembiso.
Ezo zezinye zeendlela endikhe ndabona ngazo amarhamncwa kwiminyaka emininzi kangaka kwi-Intanethi. Kodwa, ndiqinisekile ukuba kunokubakho okuninzi, nangayiphi na imeko ukuba umfundi uyazi ngakumbi ngesihloko, nceda ushiye kumagqabantshintshi ukuhlaziya iposi. Bubomi nemfezeko yabafikisayo nabantwana esithetha ngabo.
Abantwana bethu abakwishumi elivisayo kufuneka bafundiswe ukwala naluphi na unxibelelwano olunokubakho nabanye abantu abadibene nabo kwi-Intanethi.
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Kuhle ukuba eli phepha lilapha ukukhokela abazali kwaye lizazi iingozi eziqhubekayo abantwana bethu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umntu akayazi kuba abanayo i-orientation yokuba yintoni yonke le nto ye-intanethi, enkosi Ruth.
Kuyandivuyisa kakhulu ukuzisa kwinkumbulo kunye neemvakalelo eziphakamileyo zobuntu zoogxa bam endibathandayo, abasebenzisi-ndawonye bale ndlela intle kwaye inomtsalane yonxibelelwano, ulonwabo olukhulu oluvela kwelinye lamatye anqabileyo emfundo ephefumlelweyo yendalo, enongwe ngokusingqongileyo okuqinisekisiweyo. kunye nezikhokelo ezicetywayo ukukhuthaza uthando lwethu ngoMama weNdalo ezichongiweyo njenge: “ILETA EVELA KUSEATTLE EYINTLOKO Isiya KUMONGAMELI WASE-UNITED STATES” enomxholo endizivumelayo ukuba ndiwubhale ngokulandelelana ngolu hlobo:
“Ngowe-1854, umongameli waseUnited States, uFranklin Pierce, wathumela isicelo kuNkosi Seattle, wesizwe samaSuwamish, ukuba athenge imimandla ekumntla-ntshona weUnited States namhlanje eyiLizwe laseWashington. Ukutshintshana, umlawuli ohloniphekileyo uthembisa ukudala "ugcino" lwabantu bomthonyama. Ngo-1855 u-Chief Seattle uphendula kuMongameli uFranklin Pierce ”kwesi siqwenga sibalulekileyo silandelayo:
“(…) Inkosi enkulu emhlophe yaseWashington iyalele ukuba isazise ukuba ifuna ukuthenga umhlaba kuthi. INkosi eNkulu eMhlophe ikwasithumelele amazwi obuhlobo nentliziyo entle. Sibuxabisa kakhulu obu bubele, kuba siyazi ukuba anibufuni kangako ubuhlobo bethu. Isiphakamiso sakho sizakusiqwalasela kuba siyayazi ukuba, ukuba asiyenzi loo nto, umlungu angafika nemipu yakhe azothatha imihlaba yethu. Umphathi oMkhulu oMhlophe waseWashington uya kuba nako ukuthembela kwilizwi lika-Chief Seattle ngokuqiniseka okufanayo ukuba ulinde ukubuya kwamaxesha onyaka. Akwanjalo amazwi am, njengeenkwenkwezi ezingaguqukiyo, ungasithengisa na isibhakabhaka nobushushu behlabathi? Lo ngumbono ongaqhelekanga kuthi. Ukuba akukho mntu unokuba nobutsha bomoya okanye ukubengezela kwamanzi, unokuba nenjongo njani yokuzithenga? Zonke iziqwenga zalo mhlaba zingcwele kubantu bam. Yonke isebe elikhanyayo lomthi wepayina, yonke intlabathi eselunxwemeni, ubumnyama behlathi elishinyeneyo, yonke imitha yokukhanya kunye nokubetha kwezinambuzane zingcwele kwinkumbulo kunye nobomi babantu bam. Incindi etyhutyha umzimba wemithi iphethe imbali yendoda ebomvu. Abafileyo abelungu bayalilibala ilizwe labo lemvelaphi xa behambahamba phakathi kweenkwenkwezi. Abafileyo bethu abawulibali lo mhlaba mhle, kuba ngunina wendoda ebomvu. Siyinxalenye yomhlaba kwaye yinxalenye yethu. Iintyatyambo eziqholiweyo ngoodade bethu; Ixhama, ihashe, ukhozi olukhulu, ngabazalwana bethu. Iincopho zamatye, imisele emanzi yasemasimini, ubushushu bomzimba wethole nendoda, zonke ziphuma kusapho olunye. Yiyo loo nto xa uMphathi Omkhulu oMhlophe eWashington ethumela umyalezo wokuba ufuna ukuthenga umhlaba wethu, ubuza kakhulu kuthi. INkosi enkulu eMhlophe ithi iya kusigcinela indawo apho sinokuhlala sanelisekile. Yena uya kuba ngutata wethu, thina sibe ngabantwana bakhe. Ke ngoko, siza kuthathela ingqalelo isicelo sakho sokuthenga umhlaba wethu. Kodwa oko akuyi kuba lula. Lo mhlaba ungcwele kuthi. La manzi abengezelayo athontsiza emilanjeni aqukuqelele emilanjeni ayingomanzi nje kuphela, koko ligazi lookhokho bethu. Ukuba sikuthengisela umhlaba, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ungcwele, kwaye kufuneka ufundise abantwana bakho ukuba ungcwele kwaye umboniso ngamnye wamanzi acocekileyo amachibi uthetha ngeziganeko kunye neenkumbulo zobomi babantu bam. Ukubhomboloza kwemilambo lilizwi loobawo. Imilambo ngabazalwana bethu, iyanelisa unxano lwethu. Imilambo ithwala amaphenyane ethu kwaye yondla abantwana bethu. Ukuba sikuthengisela imihlaba yethu, kufuneka ukhumbule kwaye ufundise abantwana bakho ukuba imilambo ngabazalwana bethu, kwaye nawe. Ngoko ke, yinikeni imilambo ububele obuya kubenzela nawuphi na umzalwana. Siyazi ukuba abelungu abawaqondi amasiko ethu. Kuye, isiqwenga somhlaba sinentsingiselo efanayo nenye, ekubeni engumntu wasemzini ofika ebusuku aze akhuphe emhlabeni oko akufunayo. Umhlaba awungodade wabo kodwa lutshaba lwakhe, yaye xa sele ewoyisile, uqhubeka nendlela yakhe. Uwashiya ngasemva amangcwaba ookhokho bakhe kwaye akanaxhala. Uba emhlabeni izinto eziya kuba zezabantwana bakhe kwaye akakhathali. Lilityelwe ukungcwatywa kukayise, nelungelo labantwana bakhe. Uphatha unina, umhlaba, umnakwabo nesibhakabhaka njengezinto ezinokuthengwa, eziphangweyo, ezithengiswa njengezimvu okanye izihombo ezimibalabala. Ukulamba kwakhe kuya kulidla ilizwe, kushiyeke intlango. Andiqondi, amasiko ethu ahlukile kweyakho. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba ndisisibhanxa kwaye andiqondi. Akukho ndawo ithuleyo kwizixeko zabelungu. Akukho ndawo apho unokuva khona ukudumba kwamagqabi entwasahlobo okanye ukuphaphazela kwamaphiko esinambuzane. Kodwa mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba ndingumntu okhohlakeleyo kwaye andiqondi. Ingxolo ibonakala ithukisa iindlebe kuphela. Yintoni eseleyo ebomini ukuba umntu akakuva ukukhala kwentaka eyedwa okanye ukuntyiloza kwamasele ebusuku ejikeleze ichibi? Ndiyindoda ebomvu kwaye andiqondi. I-Indiya ikhetha ukumbombozela okuthambileyo komoya ovuthuza umphezulu wechibi, kunye nomoya ngokwawo, ohlanjululwe yimvula yemini okanye ivumba lepineyini. Umoya uxabiseke kakhulu kumntu obomvu, kuba zonke izinto zinomoya omnye - isilwanyana, umthi, umntu - zonke ziphefumla ngokufanayo. Kubonakala ngathi umlungu akawuva umoya awuphefumlayo. Njengomntu ofayo uziva ndindisholo ngenxa yevumba elibi. Kodwa ukuba umhlaba wethu siwuthengisela umlungu, makakhumbule ukuba umoya uxabisekile kuthi, umoya wabelana nomoya wawo nobomi obuxhasayo. Umoya owanika oomakhulu nootatomkhulu bethu umoya wabo wokuqala nabo bawufumana umphefumlo wabo wokugqibela. Ukuba sinithengisela umhlaba wethu, kufuneka uwugcine ucocekile kwaye ungcwele, njengendawo apho nomlungu ngokwakhe angangcamla umoya oswiti ziintyatyambo zamadlelo. Ke ngoko, siya kucamngca ngesithembiso sokuthenga umhlaba wethu. Ukuba sigqiba kwelokuba samkele, ndiya kumisela umqathango omnye: umlungu kufuneka aphathe izilwanyana zalo mhlaba njengabazalwana bakhe. Ndingumntu okhohlakeleyo kwaye andiyiqondi enye indlela yokwenza. Ndabona iinyathi eziliwaka zibolela ethafeni, zishiywe ngumlungu ozidubule kuloliwe odlulayo. Ndingumntu ongalawulekiyo kwaye andiyiqondi indlela ihashe elitshaya ngayo intsimbi elibaluleke ngakumbi kunenyathi, esiyincamayo ukuze siphile. Yintoni umntu ongenazilwanyana? Ukuba zonke izilwanyana bezihamba, umntu ebeya kufa bubulolo obukhulu bomoya, kuba oko kwenzeka kwizilwanyana kungekudala kuya kwenzeka ebantwini. Kukho umanyano kuyo yonke into. Umele ubafundise abantwana bakho ukuba umhlaba ophantsi kweenyawo zabo luthuthu loomakhulu nootatomkhulu babo. Ukuze bawuhloniphe umhlaba, baxelele abantwana babo ukuba watyetyiswa bubomi babantu bakuthi. Bafundise abantwana bakho oko sikufundisayo, ukuba umhlaba ngumama wethu. Nantoni na eyenzekayo emhlabeni iya kwenzeka kubantwana bomhlaba. Ukuba abantu batshica emhlabeni, bazitshicela ngokwabo. Sikwazi oku, ukuba ihlabathi asingomntu; Ngumntu womhlaba. Nantsi into esiyaziyo: zonke izinto zihlobene njengegazi elimanyanisa usapho. Kukho umanyano kuyo yonke into. Kuya kuba phezu kwabantwana belizwe into eya kulihlela ilizwe. Umntu akazange aluke ilaphu lobomi; ungomnye nje wemisonto yayo. Nantoni na ayenzayo kulaphu, uya kuyenza kuye ngokwakhe. Kwanomlungu, uThixo wakhe uhamba kwaye athethe njengaye, umhlobo nomhlobo, akanako ukukhululwa kwikamva eliqhelekileyo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba singabantwana bakowenu, phezu kwayo nje yonke into. Siza kubona. Inye into esiqiniseke ngayo ukuba abamhlophe baya kuyifumanisa ngenye imini: uThixo wethu ikwanguThixo omnye. Usenokucinga ukuba ungowakho, njengokuba unqwenela ukuwuhlutha umhlaba wethu; Kodwa akunakwenzeka, unguThixo womntu, kwaye imfesane Yakhe iyafana kumntu obomvu njengendoda emhlophe. Lixabisekile ihlabathi, yaye ukulidela kukucekisa umdali walo. Abamhlophe nabo baya kudlula; mhlawumbi ngokukhawuleza ngaphezu kwazo zonke ezinye izizwe. Zihlambeni iibhedi zenu, ngobunye ubusuku niya kurhaxwa yinkunkuma yenu. Xa lo mhlaba uthe wathatyathwa kuthi, uya kukhazimla, ukhanyiselwe ngamandla kaThixo owanizisa kula mazwe, waninika ubukhosi phezu kwelizwe naphezu kwendoda ebomvu ngenxa yesizathu esithile esikhethekileyo. Esi siphelo siyimfihlelo kuthi, kuba asiqondi ukuba iinyathi zitshatyalalisiwe, amahashe asendle athotywa onke, iikona ezifihlakeleyo zehlathi elishinyeneyo zimiliselwe livumba lamadoda amaninzi kunye nombono weentaba zivalwe ngemisonto. yentetho. Kwenzeke ntoni kweli hlathi lishinyeneyo? Wanyamalala. Kwenzeka ntoni ngokhozi? Wanyamalala. Ubomi buphelile.
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