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Zijwayele ukubonakala zingenabungozi futhi ezimweni eziningi zilulaza ukuvikelwa kwalowo ongaba yisisulu, zithola ukwethenjwa kwazo kancane kancane. Kuyinqubo engathatha amasonto - futhi ubonge ubuhle - ayisebenzi kubo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kepha ezimweni lapho bephumelela khona, izisulu kungenzeka zingaphinde zibuyele emakhaya.

Yini thina bazali esiyenzayo ukuvimbela izingane zethu ekubeni yizisulu zabanukubeza ngokocansi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana?

Njengomzali okhulelwe - isizathu engingabhalanga kaningi - ngikholelwa ukuthi izingane zidinga izinga elithile lokulawula, kepha ngaphezu kwalokho, imininingwane yokuqala esingabanika yona ibalulekile ukuvikela ekubeni yizisulu zalezi zilwane .

Ngokwemvelo, osomabhizinisi abasemithonjeni yezokuxhumana bayazi futhi ngezingozi ezingakhiqizwa ngalezi zinsimbi zokuxhumana ezinamandla. Ukuba ngamathuluzi, angasetshenziselwa okuhle noma okubi. Kodwa-ke, kufanelekile ukugcizelela ukuthi isenzo esisemthethweni nesisebenza kahle kakhulu yilesi esiqala ekhaya. Futhi kungolwazi olunembile lapho ububi obukhulu bungagwenywa khona.

Isibonelo, izingane ezisakhulayo kufanele zaziswe ngezindlela eziningi ezingafinyelelwa ngazo yilezi zihloko. Ezinye zalezo zindlela zichazwe ngezansi.

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    Bangaya kumfana / entombazaneni benobunikazi bamanga, ngokwesibonelo, njengomunye osemusha noma njengomuntu omdala futhi obonakala engenabungozi.

  • Ngezikhangiso eziheha intsha.

    Isibonelo, ukusho ukuthi umculo wamahhala noma amathikithi ekhonsathi amahhala ayanikezwa noma olunye uhlobo lwesikhangiso oludonsa ukunaka kwentsha. Bese bekucela indlela ethile yokuxhumana; isb. i-MSN noma olunye uhlobo lwemiyalezo.

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    Mhlawumbe kuyindlela esetshenziswa kakhulu yizilwane ezidla ezinye. Kuyaziwa ngisho ngamacala kwamanye amazwe lapho kusethwe khona izifundo ezisebenza nezimvume zokusebenza kepha ebezinikelwe ekuhlukumezeni intsha eza ngale hlobo lwesithembiso.

Lezo ngezinye nje zezindlela engizibonile izidlakela zisebenza eminyakeni edlule kuwebhu. Kepha, nginesiqiniseko sokuthi kungahle kube nokuningi okuningi, noma ngabe ikuphi uma umfundi azi okuthile okwengeziwe ngale ndaba, ngicela uyishiye kumazwana ukuvuselela okuthunyelwe. Yimpilo nobuqotho bezingane zethu ezisakhula nezingane zethu esikhuluma ngazo.

Kumele sifundise izingane zethu ezisencane ukuthi zenqabe konke ukuxhumana okungaba khona ngokomzimba nabanye abantu abahlangane nabo ngenethiwekhi.

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  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
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  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.

  1.   umama kusho

    Ngiyavumelana nenothi

  2.   ruth kusho

    Yebo, leli khasi ukuqondisa abazali futhi wazi izingozi ezihlala zikhona izingane zethu futhi kwesinye isikhathi umuntu angazazi ngoba azinalo umongo wokuthi konke lokhu kuyini nge-intanethi, ngiyabonga ruth

  3.   I-GUARATARO DEL GUAIRE kusho

    Kumnandi kakhulu kimi ukukhumbuza futhi ngiphakamise imizwa yabantu engisebenza nabo, engibambisene nabo ngalo mzila omuhle nobabazekayo wezokuxhumana, injabulo enkulu etholakala komunye wamatshe ayigugu angenakuphikiswa okuphefumulelwe kwemvelo, okunongwe ngemvelo ngokucophelela imihlahlandlela nokuhloselwe ukukhuthaza uthando lwethu ngoMama Wemvelo olukhonjwe njenge: "INCWADI EBHEKA ESIHLALWENI ESIKHULU ISIYA KUMONGAMELI WE-UNITED STATES" okuqukethwe kwakhe engikuvumela ukuba kubhalwe ngale ndlela elandelayo:
    “UMongameli wase-United States, uFranklin Pierce, wathumela isipho ngo-1854 kuChief Seattle, wesizwe sakwaSuwamish, ukuba ayothenga kuye iNorthwest Territories yase-United States namuhla eyakha iSifundazwe saseWashington. Ngokuphindaphindiwe, umbusi ohloniphekile uthembisa ukudala "ukubhuka" kwabantu bomdabu. Ngo-1855 uChief Seattle uphendula uMongameli uFranklin Pierce ”ngomqondo wencwadi elandelayo ebaluleke kakhulu:
    “(…) IGreat White Chief yaseWashington iyalele ukuthi isazise ukuthi ifuna ukuthenga umhlaba kithina. Inkosi Enkulu Emhlophe isithumelele namazwi obungani nentando enhle. Siwazisa kakhulu lo musa, ngoba siyazi ukuthi ubungani bethu abenzi lukhulu kuwe. Sizocubungula isipho sakho ngoba siyazi ukuthi, uma singakwenzi lokho, umlungu angafika nezibhamu zakhe ezothatha izindawo zethu. IGreat White Chief yaseWashington ingathatha izwi likaChief Seattle ngayo ngokuqiniseka okufanayo ukuthi ulindele ukubuya kweziteshi. Njengoba izinkanyezi ezingaguquki zingamazwi ami, ungasithenga kanjani noma usithengise isibhakabhaka noma imfudumalo yomhlaba? Lowo ngumbono oxakile kithina. Uma kungekho noyedwa ongaba nomoya omusha noma ubukhazikhazi bamanzi, ungaphakamisa kanjani ukuwathenga? Zonke izingcezu zalo mhlaba zingcwele kubantu bami. Lonke igatsha elikhanyayo lesihlahla sikaphayini, sonke isihlabathi esigcwele amabhishi, ubumnyama behlathi eliminyene, yonke imisebe yokukhanya nokubhonga kwezinambuzane kungcwele enkumbulweni nasempilweni yabantu bami. Ubisi olugudla imizimba yezihlahla luphethe umlando wesikhumba esibomvu. Abafileyo bomlungu bakhohlwa umhlaba wabo wokuzalwa lapho behamba phakathi kwezinkanyezi. Abafileyo bethu abakhohlwa lo mhlaba omuhle, ngoba ungumama wale ndoda enesikhumba esibomvu. Siyingxenye yomhlaba futhi iyingxenye yethu. Izimbali ezinamakha odadewethu; izinyamazane, ihhashi, ukhozi olukhulu, ngabazalwane bethu. Iziqongo ezinamadwala, imisele emanzi yasemaphandleni, ukushisa komzimba kwethole kanye nendoda, konke kungokomndeni owodwa. Ngalesi sizathu, lapho iGreat White Chief eWashington ithumela umyalezo wokuthi ifuna ukuthenga umhlaba wethu, ibuza okuningi kithi. Inkosi Enkulu Emhlophe ithi izosibekela indawo lapho singahlala khona sanelisekile. Uzoba ubaba wethu thina sibe ngabantwana bakhe. Ngakho-ke, sizobheka isithembiso sakho sokuthenga umhlaba wethu. Kodwa lokho ngeke kube lula. Lo mhlaba ungcwele kithina. La manzi acwazimulayo agudla imifudlana nemifula akuwona amanzi nje kuphela, kodwa yigazi lokhokho bethu. Uma sikuthengisela lo mhlaba, kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi ungcwele, futhi kufanele ufundise izingane zakho ukuthi ungcwele nokuthi ukubonakaliswa ngakunye emanzini ahlanzekile amachibi kukhuluma ngemicimbi nezinkumbulo zempilo yabantu bami. Ukububula kwemifula yizwi labokhokho bami. Imifula ingabafowethu, iyasanelisa ukoma kwethu. Imifula ithwala izikebhe zethu futhi yondle izingane zethu. Uma sikuthengisela amasimu ethu, kufanele ukhumbule futhi ufundise izingane zakho ukuthi imifula ingabafowethu, futhi ingeyakho futhi. Ngakho-ke, kufanele unikeze imifula umusa ongawunikela kunoma yimuphi umzalwane. Siyazi ukuthi umlungu akawaqondi amasiko ethu. Kuyena isiqephu somhlaba sisho okufanayo nanoma yikuphi, ngoba ungumfokazi oza ebusuku futhi akhiphe lokho akudingayo ezweni. Umhlaba akuyena udadewabo kodwa uyisitha sakhe, futhi lapho esewunqobile, uqhubeka nendlela yakhe. Ushiya ngemuva amathuna okhokho bakhe futhi akanandaba. Uyantshontsha emhlabeni okungaba izingane zakhe futhi akanandaba. Ukungcwatshwa kukayise namalungelo ezingane zakhe kuyakhohlwa. Uphatha umama wakhe, umhlaba, umfowabo, nezulu njengezinto ezingathengwa, ziphangwe, zidayiswe njengezinqama noma imihlobiso enemibala. Isifiso sakhe sokudla siyoshwabadela umhlaba, kusale ihlane kuphela. Angiqondi, amasiko ethu ahlukile kwelakho. Mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi ngiyisihluku futhi angiqondi. Ayikho indawo ethule emadolobheni abelungu. Ayikho indawo lapho ungezwa khona ukuqhakaza kwamaqabunga entwasahlobo noma ukushaywa kwamaphiko ezinambuzane. Kepha mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi ngiyindoda yasendle futhi angiqondi. Umsindo ubukeka uthuka izindlebe kuphela. Yini okusele empilweni uma umuntu engakwazi ukuzwa ukukhala kwesizungu kwenyoni noma umqubuko wasebusuku wamasele azungeze ichibi? Ngiyindoda yesikhumba esibomvu futhi angiqondi. ElaseNdiya lithanda ukububula okuthambile komoya ovunguza ebusweni bechibi, kanye nomoya uqobo, ohlanzwe yimvula yasemini noma enongwe ngamaphayini. Umoya ubaluleke kakhulu endodeni enesikhumba esibomvu, ngoba zonke izinto zihlanganyela umoya ofanayo - isilwane, isihlahla, indoda - zonke zihlanganyela umoya ofanayo. Kubukeka sengathi umlungu akawuzwa umoya awuphefumulayo. Njengomuntu ofayo uba ndikindiki ngenxa yephunga. Kepha uma sidayisela umhlaba wethu kumlungu, kufanele akhumbule ukuthi umoya ubalulekile kithi, lowo moya uhlanganyela umoya wawo nempilo ayixhasayo. Umoya onikeze ogogo nomkhulu bethu umoya wabo wokuqala, nawo uthole umoya wawo wokugcina. Uma sikuthengisela umhlaba wethu, kufanele uwugcine ungaphelele futhi ungcwele, njengendawo lapho nomlungu uqobo angawuzwa umoya onethwe yizimbali zezimila. Ngakho-ke, sizocabanga ngokunikezwa kokuthenga umhlaba wethu. Uma sithatha isinqumo sokwamukela, ngizobeka umbandela: umlungu kumele aphathe izilwane zalo mhlaba njengabafowabo. Ngiyindoda yasendle futhi angiqondi enye indlela yokwenza. Ngabona inyathi eyizinkulungwane ibola ethafeni, ishiywe ngumlungu owabadubula behla esitimeleni esidlulayo. Ngiyindoda yasendle futhi angiqondi ukuthi ihhashi lensimbi elibhemayo lingabaluleke kanjani ukwedlula inyathi, esiyidela ukuze siphile. Uyini umuntu ongenazo izilwane? Uma zonke izilwane zihamba, umuntu ubengafa ngesizungu esikhulu somoya, ngoba okwenzeka ezilwaneni kuzokwenzeka kungekudala kubantu. Kukhona inyunyana kukho konke. Kufanele ufundise izingane zakho ukuthi umhlaba ongaphansi kwezinyawo zawo ngumlotha kagogo nomkhulu wabo. Ukuhlonipha umhlaba, tshela izingane zakho ukuthi wawunothiswe yimpilo yabantu bakithi. Fundisa izingane zakho lokho esikufundisa okwethu, ukuthi umhlaba ngumama wethu. Konke okwenzeka emhlabeni kuzokwenzeka kubantwana bomhlaba. Uma amadoda ekhafulela phansi, ayazikhafulela. Yilokhu esikwaziyo: umhlaba akuwona owomuntu; ngumuntu ongowomhlaba. Nakhu esikwaziyo: zonke izinto zihlobene njengegazi elihlanganisa umndeni. Kukhona inyunyana kukho konke. Okwenzeka emhlabeni kuzokwehlela kubantwana bomhlaba. Umuntu akazange aluke indwangu yokuphila; umane nje ungomunye wemicu yakhe. Noma yini ayenzayo endwangwini, uzozenzela yona. Ngisho nomlungu, uNkulunkulu wakhe ohamba futhi akhulume njengaye, kusuka kumngani kuye kumngane, angeke akhululeke ekudalelweni okuvamile. Kungenzeka ukuthi siyizelamani, naphezu kwakho konke. Sizobona. Kokunye sinesiqiniseko sokuthi umlungu ngelinye ilanga uzothola: uNkulunkulu wethu unguNkulunkulu uqobo. Ungase ucabange ukuthi ungumnikazi wayo, njengoba ufisa ukuthola umhlaba wethu; kodwa akwenzeki, UnguNkulunkulu womuntu, futhi ububele bakhe bufana nomuntu onesikhumba esibomvu njengalowo onesikhumba esimhlophe. Umhlaba uyigugu, futhi ukuwudelela ukudelela umdali wawo. Abamhlophe nabo bazodlula; mhlawumbe ngokushesha ukwedlula zonke ezinye izizwe. Ngcolisa imibhede yakho futhi ngobusuku obubodwa uzominyaniswa ngudoti wakho. Lapho besiphuca lo mhlaba, uzokhanya ngokukhanyayo ngokukhanyayo ngamandla kaNkulunkulu owakuletha kula mazwe futhi ngasizathu simbe wakunika ukubusa phezu komhlaba naphezu kwendoda enesikhumba esibomvu. Lesi siphetho siyimfihlakalo kithina, ngoba asiqondi ukuthi inyathi iyaqothulwa, amahhashi asendle wonke athanjisiwe, izingxenyana eziyimfihlo zehlathi eliminyene zifakwe iphunga lamadoda amaningi nombono wezintaba uvinjwe yimicu yokukhuluma. Kwenzekeni ehlathini elijiyile? Wanyamalala. Kwenzekeni okhozini? Wanyamalala. Impilo isiphelile.
    Thokozela ukudla!

  4.   michelle kusho

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