Sonke sine "umngane" we-Instagram okhathazekile ngokulayisha izithombe zomuntu ngamunye ejimini. Kungaba nguwe uqobo owenza ukuphawula okujwayelekile mayelana nokuthi usebenze kahle kangakanani noma uhamba ngebhayisikili ekuseni yakho, noma kunjalo, yonke imisebenzi yabantu ifihla iziphetho ezingokwengqondo ngemuva kwayo. Ngokwesifundo esenziwe yiBrunel University (London - UK) abantu babejwayele ukwenza "i-gym selfies" babonise izinkinga ezingokwengqondo ezinhlobonhlobo zamathuba, bagxile ezimweni ezibonisa isimo esingesihle sempilo yengqondo.
Ngokwemiphumela, ezimweni ezinhle kakhulu, umuntu ohlanganyela ngokuqinile lolu hlobo lokuqukethwe, uhlushwa yizici zobungqingili. Ukuhlaziya indlela abantu abaziphethe ngayo, abacwaningi babonile ukuthi inhloso kuphela lapho babelana ngalokhu okuqukethwe ukubonisa ukuzinikela kwabo ekubukekeni kwabo kobuhle.
AmaNarcissist abuyekeza amanethiwekhi awo omphakathi kaningi ngokufeza kwabo ngokomzimba futhi lokhu kushukunyiswa yisidingo sokunakwa nokuphikiswa emphakathini wabo.
Kodwa-ke, into ekhathaza kakhulu ngocwaningo ukuthi ubuqili "babangane" abasebenzisana nalolu hlobo lokuqukethwe. Ngokuya ngocwaningo, ngaphandle kokuthi lolu hlobo lokuqukethwe lunezinga eliphezulu lokuxhumana okulungile nezepolitiki, ngasese abasebenzisi abaningi bayavuma ukuthi abaluthandi lolu hlobo lwabakhangisi nabazithandayo. Impela, akuyona into okufanele iqinisekiswe ngokwesayensi, kepha kaningi, lolu hlobo lwengqondo ludala ukungabaza phakathi kokushoda noma okusele kwalabo oluphikisana nabo, futhi lolu cwaningo selikubeke kwacaca ukuthi lezi zinhlobo zemisebenzi zibangelwa isidingo nokuntuleka, futhi hhayi nhlobo emphakathini.
Akusona isifundo sokuqala kuma- "selfies"
Ukukhulekelwa kweqanda kuyisifo esijwayele ukwenzeka ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi, lokhu okuchazwe ngenhla akusona isifundo sokuqala noma ukuhlaziywa okugxile ekuluthweni kwama-selfies. Ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwamanethiwekhi afana ne-Facebook nakanjani kunxusa umoya we-narcissistic sonke esiwufihlile, ngaphambi kwalokho, ukuthobeka kwethu kulwa ngokwethembeka unyaka nonyaka. Abantu abangaphezu kwezigidi ezingama-240 Bashicilele isithombe kuFacebook ngaphansi kwama-hashtag #me noma #selfie, ngenhloso eyodwa kuphela yokuqhakambisa iphuzu, yena. Izazi zezenhlalo kanye nodokotela bengqondo bayavuma ukuthi lolu hlobo lwabantu lubonisa kuphela lokho abafuna abanye bakubone, ngakho-ke ngokuvamile bayizifundo ezinokuzenyeza okuphansi ezidinga ukwamukelwa nokwamukelwa abanye.
Ngesimo sengqondo se- «selfie», abakufunayo ukudala ukunyakaza kokuzethemba phakathi kwezihlobo zabo, ukuqinisekisa kabusha ubunikazi bakho bamanje, noma ukukulahla, uma ungatholi imvume efanele. Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe bakhombisa ukuthi kunezihluthulelo ezimbili zalolu hlobo lokuziphatha: i-narcissism engalawulwa, noma ukungazethembi okukhulu.
Qaphela: Ngokwenganekwane yaseRomanesque neyamaGrikhi, uNarcissus wayeyinsizwa enhle, enokuzihlonipha okunjalo, ukuthi ngelinye ilanga ebuka isithombe sakhe echibini, wazithanda, wagcina ngokuzibulala ngenxa yokudabuka engakwazi ukufeza lokho abehlala ekufuna, yena uqobo.
Okukhathaza kakhulu lezi zihloko "eziyimilutha" kuselfie ukufeza inani eliphakeme kakhulu "lokuthandwa" okungenzeka, kube ngathi kukhombisa amaphuzu esivivinyo sansuku zonke. Ngokuvumelana ne Izikole ezihamba phambili zeComputer Science, lolu hlobo lokuziphatha luphela luba yizinkinga zengqondo ezinjengokudangala, ukuphazamiseka ngokweqile kanye ne-dysmorphophobia. Okuthi "ukuthandwa" kubuyisela emuva kulo mkhuba, kepha singasithandi kanjani "ukusithanda" lesi sithombe somngani wethu wokuphila konke, noma singasithandi nhlobo. Impela, indlela engcono kakhulu yokusiza laba bantu ukukhombisa ngokucophelela ukuthi umsebenzi wabo awukho kumingcele ojwayelekile wokuziphatha okunempilo, nokuthi mhlawumbe kufanele bacabange kabusha ukusetshenziswa abakunikeza ukuxhumana nomphakathi noma izizathu zokuthi kungani begcina isimo somzimba noma esinye isimo .
Futhi isithombe sombhali walesi sihloko siyisithombe ozishuthe sona
Komunye umuntu kubonakala kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi umuntu asebenzise usuku lonke efundisa konke akwenzayo, epheka, ehamba, ethokozela ... sengathi bonke abanye banendaba nokuthile ..., lokho ngokuyisisekelo yi-Facebook, noma ukuqhuma kwebhomu abanye bethu abaphansi kwe-WhatsApp . Kunabantu abodwa, futhi abadinga ukwabelana ngaphezu kwabanye, noma badinwa kakhulu, futhi ngiyakuqonda lokho. Kepha kukhona abantu abaqondile njengodokotela wezifo zengqondo. Kodwa eziningi, eziningi ..