Njengoba nazi nonke, uFebhuwari 14 uyeza. Ngalolo suku, kunehlaya elingabajabulisi kakhulu abangashadile, okuyilona elithi "ngoSuku Lwezithandani, abangashadile bagxeka lolu suku bethi wusuku lokuhweba okumele ludliwe" futhi aluhambisani nabo. Abangashadile baqinisile ngokwengxenye, kepha futhi lusuku olungaba olukhethekile uma unomlingani wakho. Eziningi zalezi zingoma azibodwa ngokuzithandela, kepha zingathanda ukubhangqwa futhi kule ndatshana sizozama ukukubonisa ukudlala ngothando ku-inthanethi.
Into yokuqala engingathanda ukuyisho ukuthi ukudlala ngothando kwi-Intanethi (noma ukukuyeka) Akuyona isayensi ngqo. Kunezincwadi zokuyenga ezithi zinendlela, kepha kuthatha kuphela ukuhlangana nomuntu ohluke kancani kunabanye ukubona izinhlobonhlobo zobuntu nezinhlamvu ezikhona esintwini. Kulesi sihloko sizokunikeza izinhlelo zokusebenza, amakhasi nezindlela lapho ungathola khona uhhafu wakho ongcono, kanye nezinye izeluleko, kepha ngeke sikunikeze noma iyiphi ifomula yomlingo ezoqinisekisa impumelelo eyi-100%.
Njengenjwayelo kulolu hlobo lohlu, izinketho ezilandelayo azikho ohlwini ngokubaluleka. Kufanele ukhethe okuthandayo kakhulu noma ocabanga ukuthi kufanelana nezidingo zakho. Ohlwini ngifake amakhasi abucayi ukuthola umlingani ozinzile, izicelo engazi kuzo ukuthi imibhangqwana eminingi isijoyinile, yize kungezona izicelo ezenzelwe kuphela ukudlala ngothando, kanye naleso esenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile kwabangathembekile, okuthile okubonakala sengathi ayinangqondo ngoba ukungathembeki kufanele ube nomlingani wakho, kepha uma kuyikhasi elithi "ukukopela", singahlala sikopela ngaphambili. Ngezansi unohlu lwamakhasi, izinhlelo zokusebenza namathiphu wokudlala ngothando online.
Ungadlala ngothando kanjani kwi-Intanethi: amakhasi nezinhlelo zokusebenza
eDarling
I-eDarling ingelinye lamasayithi wokuphola ahamba phambili eYurophu futhi esetshenziswa kakhulu eSpain. Leli khasi lazalelwa eJalimane futhi lijabulela ukuthandwa kakhulu, okuthile ubucayi balo nemiphumela yalo elinikele kulo. Iyakhokhwa, njengezinsizakalo ezibucayi kakhulu zalolu hlobo, kepha uma ufuna umlingani ongathí sina, kungaba ngowokuqala okufanele uzame.
Ukucacisa kancane, ukubhalisa nge-eDarling kumahhala. Ngingaqhathanisa imodeli yebhizinisi labo nesicelo samahhala ngokuthengwa okuhlanganisiwe komakhalekhukhwini: singena mahhala kepha sidinga ukukhokha uma sifuna ukuthola imiphumela.
Iwebhusayithi: edarling.es
Ashley Madison
Wayebandakanyeka ehlazweni: U-Ashley Madison wagencwa futhi… ake siqale ekuqaleni. I-Ashley Madison iyiwebhusayithi yalabo bafuna ukuhlala i-adventure nomunye umuntu ongeyena umlingani wakho. Ngenkathi igqekezwa, idatha yezigidi zabantu abangathembekile yadalulwa futhi lokho kwaba yihlazo, lokuthi abalingani balaba bantu bangathola ngokwethembeka kwabo, ngakho-ke insizakalo ayikwazi ukuqinisekisa ukungaziwa.
Kunoma ikuphi, u-Ashley Madison usasebenza. Bengifuna ukumfaka ohlwini lwalabo bantu abangashadile nabo abafuna ukuphila ngokuzijabulisa, yize kuzodingeka ukuthi siqambe amanga amancane: ukubhalisa ukusho ukuthi unomlingani wakho. Ngokusobala, lolu hlobo lokuqomisana lolo kuphela lolo daba, yize kwazi bani, ungahlala wenza omunye umuntu ashiye umlingani wakho, akunjalo?
Iwebhusayithi: ashleymadison.com
Hlakulela umalume
I-AdoptaUnTío yiwebhusayithi evela eFrance. Akufikanga ngaphandle kokuphikisana, ngoba kule nkonzo yokuqomisana ngabesifazane abanakho konke ukulawula. Abesilisa kufanele bagcwalise iphrofayli bese belinda owesifazane ukuthi "abathenge".
Kuyacaca ukuthi le nsizakalo eyabesilisa abacabanga ukuthi banokuthile okungaheha abesifazane. Ngokungakwazi ukusebenzisana nabo sibakhombisa ukuthi bayathakazelisa, ake sithi i-AdoptaUnTío ingeyalawo madoda akwazi "ukuthumela isikhangiso" esingabathakazelisa. Ungalokotha?
Ah, ngikhohliwe: le webhusayithi isebenza kuphela ukuxhumana abantu bobulili obuhlukile.
Iwebhusayithi: lamukelwa.es
Uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-Android
Ukufanisa neMeetic
I-Meetic ne-Match amakhasi amabili ewebhu afana ncamashi, kufanele ufake kuphela womabili ukuze ukuqonde. IMeetic, edume kakhulu kulaba bobabili, yiwebhusayithi yokuphola lapho ungakwazi khona hlela imisebenzi nokuhlangana lapho abasebenzisi bangahlangana khona, okunethezeka kakhulu futhi okunengcindezi encane kunokuthola ngqo ngaphandle kohlelo. Itholakala emazweni ayi-16 aseYurophu nangezilimi ezihlukene eziyi-13. Njengoba kubaluleke kakhulu, kubukeka sengathi ukubheja okuphephile.
Qondanisa ikhasi: en.match.com
Ikhasi le-Meetic: metic.com
Badoo
IBadoo yinethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu, lokho kumele kucaciswe. Okwenzekayo ukuthi kule nethiwekhi yokuxhumana, abasebenzisi baningi uzimisele ukudlala ngothando kunakwamanye amanethiwekhi okuxhumana nomphakathi njenge-Facebook eyaziwayo. Kuyindlela enhle ukuxhumana nabantu abazimisele ukuthola umlingani ongacabangi ukuthi uzodlala ngothando. Yinto futhi esusa ingcindezi ethile.
Iwebhusayithi: badoo.com/zu
Uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-Android
Tinder
I-Tinder enye inethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu, kepha isetshenziselwa i- abantu abanezintshisekelo ezifanayo utholakale. Yilokho okuhle ngeTinder: uma uthanda omunye woxhumana nabo, usuvele uyazi ukuthi unokuthile enifana ngakho. Sonke singathanda ukuthi umlingani wethu abe muhle, kepha uma naye esondelene kakhulu nathi, yini enye ongayicela?
Ibhonasi: engxoxweni
Njengoba isisho sithi, "Uma okuthile kusebenza, ungakuthinti." I- cats (IRC) bezilokhu zikhona cishe kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala ze-Intanethi. Kunamakhasi amaningi ahlinzekayo cats mahhala lapho singangena khona futhi sikhulume nazo zonke izinhlobo zabantu. Phakathi ku baxoxe Asisoze saba ngabodwana bokuthile, ngakho-ke uma sizama ukudlala ngothando, kuqinisekile ukuthi kuzoba nabantu abaningi abafanayo. Eqinisweni, iningi labantu abangena ku- cats Ukwenza ngoba ezizwa enesizungu ngandlela thile futhi unethemba lokuthola umuntu lapho angaxoxa naye kamnandi futhi mhlawumbe athole umlingani.
Amathiphu
- Unganikezi imininingwane yomuntu. Ngingasho ukuthi ngaphandle kokuphawula kepha, njengakho konke okuku-Intanethi, kufanelekile ukuthi ungathembi muntu kuze kube yilapho ekhombisa ukuthi uthembekile. Futhi kakhulu ukuphathisa idatha yethu kuwe.
- Qaphela imikhonyovu. Leli phuzu lifana kakhulu nelangaphambilini. Kulezi zinhlobo zamakhasi kukhona nabakhwabanisi abaningi, ngomehluko wokuthi laba baduni bachitha isikhathi bekhuluma nathi. Kuke kube nezimo lapho umuntu, kwesinye isikhathi evela kwelinye izwe, ecela imali ukuthi eze azosibona. Ungamangala ngabantu abaluma lolu hlobo lwehuku. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukhona namakhasi angakhokhisa okuthile angakunikeli kamuva. Yize lezi engikunike zona phambilini futhi zingasebenzisa izimo zazo zokusebenzisa ukunganikeli okuthile, zihlonishwa kakhulu futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuthi zizame ukukukhwabanisa.
- Ungazikhohlisi kakhulu. Singahlangana nabantu abaningi kwi-Intanethi, kokuhle nokubi. Kulezi zinsuku akumangazi ukuthi abantu ababili abahlangane kwi-Intanethi bangabashadikazi abazinzile, kepha akumangazi ukuthi siya osukwini bese simane sithola okuthile ebesingakulindele. Impela usibonile isithombe esihlekisayo lapho ubona khona abantu ababili ababhala okuphambene nalokho abayikho.
- Qaphela uma ungowesifazane. Lokhu kungazwakala njengobulili, kepha akukho okuqhubekayo eqinisweni. Lapha sikhuluma nje ngamandla e-theory uma uhlangana nomuntu oyingozi. Ukugwema lokhu, kungcono ukuthi unqume konke mayelana nomhlangano: indawo oyaziyo, uma kungaba indawo yokucima ukoma noma efanayo lapho uhlangana nabasebenzi bakhona, uma ungaphelezelwa, kangcono, njll.
- Uma uyindoda, ukubekezela. Kungani? Ezikhathini eziningi, kulezi zinhlobo zamakhasi, oxhumana nabo baqala ngokuthumela uhlobo lomlayezo kumuntu abathandekayo kuye. Angazi noma angikaze ngisicabangele isizathu, kepha thina bantu sithumela eminye yale milayezo, ngakho-ke uma sithanda umuntu wesifazane futhi sinquma ukumthumelela okuthile, qiniseka ukuthi lowo muntu uzobe ethole amakhulu emiyalezo.
- Uma uthatha isinqumo sokuqamba amanga, gcina amanga. Kwi-Intanethi, kulula kakhulu ukuqamba amanga, lokho akuyona imfihlo. Angifuni ukuncoma noma ukuthembeka noma ukuzenza into esingeyona, kepha ngingasho ukuthi uma uthatha isinqumo sokuqamba amanga, kungamanga ongawagcina. Ungenza ezinye izici zakho, kepha okungafanele ukwenze ukukhuluma amanga amakhulu azogcina ngokwephula ubudlelwano lapho kutholakala. Ngaphandle kokuthi kufunwe ubudlelwano bezikhathi ezithile, lapho-ke lesi seluleko asisebenzi.
Ngakho-ke, uma ungenaye umlingani futhi ufuna ukuba naye noma uphile i-adventure, yilungiselele. Njengoba bekulokhu kushiwo, awunayo, kepha kungaba ngu-yebo ozwakalayo. Kwazi bani? Mhlawumbe amakhasi amahle kakhulu emlandweni wempilo yakho asazobhalwa futhi lezo zahluko ziqala ngesilinganiso se-Intanethi. Uma unquma ukuthatha lesi sinyathelo, sikufisela inhlanhla 😉